Signs Your Relationship Is Going Well

*Unedited Preview of my new article I'm working on should be finished by 1/12/12  I just couldn't wait to get my ideas out there


1. ) He wouldn't object  to you leaving an extra toothbrush or your shower gel at his place.

This shows that he's getting comfortable with you. It's another sign that your spending so much time that it seems natural to leave some things behind. It's also a good sign because if there were other women coming to his house then he couldn't have you leave your things in plain sight.

2.) If you both work or go to school during the week then your spending most weekends together.

 Most people devote the weekends to hobbies or relationships that they care about. It's great when a couple loves to devote their weekends to some "us" time but don't forget about your friends.

3.) He schedules dates and meet ups before 8 p.m

There's nothing more disrespectful to me than a guy who calls me at 11:30 pm asking if I want to "watch a movie" or I want to "chill for a little bit". As the woman you have every right to set the bar higher and demand that he call earlier in the night.

4.) He makes you breakfast without asking when you sleepover

This is tapping into the provider role that is hardwired into a man! He wants to take care of you and he does it all with a smile. Men show love through their actions instead of saying it. Pay attention to the small gestures is the key.


5.) He does his best to remember important dates ( example your birthdays , your auditions, your big tests mainly the big moments in your life)

He does he best to remember those important events and goes to them when he can. This shows he's truly invested. So if he shows up on time to be your date to the party

6.) You can't keep your hands - off each other (non-groping way)

7.)  Your partner respects your rights and wouldn't force you to stay if you weren't happy

8.) You can talk about anything without the fear of being judged or put down for your ideas

9.) It feels natural and easy when your together ( it just works)

10.) The sex is hot and never feels like a chore!

The sex isn't perfect all the time but it's very steamy and you work hard to please each other. Sex isn't everything but its important to feel intimacy with your partner.

11.) Making time for each other even though you have important things in your life


12.) After a few months you've either met some of  their friends and family

13.) You can see them easily in your long term plans

14.)  You don't have secrets in the relationship and your open with each other

I'm Complaining Really Fast

I can't stand boys who talk about sex all the time. It's so annoying. I'm not saying sex isn't fun for us girls. But usually when someone talks about sex all the time it's a sign of immaturity. That guy is usually just looking for a decent make out session or a nice romp in the hay. Those jerks are least easy to avoid once they've spouted all their sexual fantasies then they leave you alone. They are normally so embrassed that they have told you those deep thoughts and you haven't reciprocated in the least.

Does Being Official on Facebook Matter?

I think to some people being on Facebook with the relationship is a huge deal. It's the complete and total public acknowledgement of your relationship. However, I feel people give Facebook an  important place in their lives that is unnecessary at times. I think if your boyfriend or girlfriend is an active user ( meaning they check Facebook daily or more than once a day) then it's worth having the conversation . I think anything that bothers you is worth talking about. It's a tough call especially if you are very young couple.The negative side is the break up will essentially be a public event thanks to Facebook. I would totally weigh your options. Every couple is different! Some people will want to broadcast the relationship and others don't feel like having it be public knowledge. I hope you don't jump to the assumption that your partner has something to hide. We all hope that our relationships last forever but lets be realistic here! Facebook may make it more complicated when we are severing ties.

Welcome to 2012

Hey guys,
      It's been so long since I've written in this blog. I was dealing with finals at college and trying to figure out some of my own boy drama. I really need to step it up and try to come up with material weekly. I've been talking to alot of my girlfriends and it seems they need LOADS help. Girls still need more advice on dating and what to do let's face it. I'm going to come up with some youtube videos to go along with the blog for 2012. Also, I want to try and get some of my friends to be guest writers. I do want to have sections of the blog were I talk in depth about my own life as well.  It looks like I have my work cut out for me.
               XOXO,
                        Dev