Top 5 Things To Ask Before You Have Sex

People are very shy about talking about this issue! However, I'm not shy at all! Its key to your emotional health to have these conversations. In October 2010, it was reported 1 in 3 college students will contract some type of STD. Why are we as a society not more vigilant in educating people about their sexual health ? Are we too embarrassed to speak up? Teenagers are getting AIDS, HPV and becoming parents every single minute. Here's my pre -sex checklist :   1. ) What type of protection are we going to use ?  2.) Ask your partner about their past sexual history OR 3#        3.) Get an HIV test done together  4.) How will you feel about yourself afterwards?   5.) Are you feeling pressured to do these things? It's okay to say NO
   

                           
                             
                            

                           

                           

                           
                       

Bro, are you her boyfriend or her pen pal?

When I hear about these long distances relationships and those couples who never see each other I just think PEN PAL! If you don't find a way to see each other its not going anywhere fast. Can we be adults and be honest with ourselves? I don't understand how these teens can say yes I have a boyfriend! There's something to be said for face to face contact. Couples in this high -tec world need to remove the emails, texts, IMs and close the distance. We can't depend on technology to keep feeding our relationships. If anything technology is putting a strain on our love connections. I miss the eye contact, voice inflection and tone with the written word.
P.S - Ladies, don't ever start a texting fight with your man! Please trust me on this!